Why We Act the Way We Do

“You developed your attachment style through the events of your early childhood..” www.FindTruePeace.com We often do not understand why our significant others behave toward us in certain ways, nor do they always understand why we treat them how we do. I hope this brief article helps to clarify some of why we speak and act […]

How to Know if Somebody is a True Close Friend

“Not everybody who says you are “family” or a close friend is telling you the truth.” www.FindTruePeace.com Have you been making excuses for someone who says they are a close friend but doesn’t act that way? I decided to write a brief view of what a close relationship between two Christians would look like from […]

Why Do I Cry?

“I have done the Lord’s work humbly and with many tears.” www.FindTruePeace.com Yesterday, as I listened to my wife talking, I heard the motherly and Godly concern for our children in her voice. I had also been thinking about a verse in Scripture that gets overlooked, Acts 20:19, Paul speaking: “I have done the Lord’s […]

How Does God Help People?

God had a different idea of help that reached far beyond the temporary welfare of one “human.” www.FindTruePeace.com As I was waking up this morning, the Holy Spirit reminded me of Hebrews 5:7-8… “While Jesus lived on earth, he prayed to God and asked God for help. He prayed with loud cries and tears to […]

Is Your Christian Leader a Narcissist?

“I’ve noticed an increase in narcissistic tendencies not only in society in general, but within Church leadership, as well.” www.FindTruePeace.com Why You Should be Concerned and How to Know if Your Christian Leader is a Narcissist. I doubt most Christians would believe their leader is a narcissist when considering the general definition for a narcissist. […]

I’m a Christian and I Have Anxiety

“Jack was 41, a husband & father, a Christian for 19 years, a Sunday School teacher, and filled with anxiety.” www.FindTruePeace.com Yes, Christians can suffer with anxiety. When Jack first walked into my office two things were obvious. He “appeared” as a confident man but he was full of fear. The only reason those two […]

I’m a Christian and I Want a Divorce

“Jeff & Megan came to me for help with their failing marriage — but they didn’t want help — they wanted a divorce.” www.FindTruePeace.com What Happens When Christian Spouses Don’t Love One Another? I’ve worked with scores of troubled marriages. Many of those couples want an elder, pastor or counselor to tell them divorce is […]

I’m a Christian and I’m Addicted to Pornography

“When Ken came to see me in regard to his pornography addiction, he had been “unraveling” psychologically, physically & spiritually for years. Now he was near undone.” www.FindTruePeace.com How Does Pornography Affect a Christian? Ken was a husband & father, a respected business leader, an elder in his church and a Christian for over 23 […]

Is Truth Encounter The Same Thing As Counseling?

“A dangerous concept is that Truth Encounter is simply another form of counseling.” www.FindTruePeace.com The Entire Essence of Truth Encounter is Expressed in its Name The question, “Is Truth Encounter counseling?” has most often been asked of me by counselors, and that is understandable, however, Truth Encounter is not counseling. Traditional counseling requires: Analysis Diagnosis Prescription […]

Why Does Truth Encounter Work?

“I do not believe that during Truth Encounter a healing occurs of one’s soul, conscience or mind. Likewise, I don’t believe that memories must be healed.” www.FindTruePeace.com I am often asked, “Why does Truth Encounter work?” This is a common question; especially when the phrase “Truth Encounter” cannot be found within the original Hebrew, Greek […]

How Does Truth Encounter Work?

“As to how Truth Encounter works, various people have said it works by healing memories—that is wrong.” www.FindTruePeace.com Truth Encounter is a Supernatural Experience with God when He Shows a Christian How His Truth Overcomes a Lie that a Christian Has Believed, Which Has Caused Them Great Suffering. Truth Encounter, which is sometimes incorrectly referred […]

Who Needs Truth Encounter?

“Troubled Christians Will Benefit from Biblical Counseling; But There Are Certain Christians Who Benefit Most with Truth Encounter” www.FindTruePeace.com Not All Troubled Christians Are Candidates for Truth Encounter Truth Encounter candidates are Christians who want to please God and continue to try; yet they continue to struggle with any or all of these symptoms: failing […]